The 10 Gods Code: How To Love an Indirect Resource

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This one is quite lovable also, because apart from the Direct Officer (DO) who knows what you want before you even say it, the Indirect Resource (IR) knows what you’re feeling even if you don’t say it. Their natural intuition and keen eye doesn’t miss much, hence their passion for figuring out how everything works and that includes those they love. They love helping whenever then can, however they can and this comes with no boundaries nor intention. They make wonderful healers, social workers, or someone in the medical field, if they didn’t use their magnificent brain power to churn data and predicting market trends instead.

The thing so special about the Indirect Resource is that they are both smart and intuitive at the same time, like somehow their DNA has been wired to have the head and heart work at almost the same ratio. So they are open minded, the ultimate wanderers, want to (safely) enjoy new experiences, observe more, see different things and absorb everything like sponge. This is what makes them feel most alive.

The only thing about them is they can be so inward that they spend a lot of time in their own world. This can translate to day dreaming or overthinking. When you’re so good at analyzing everything, you understand the risk of every single action and this can turn into fear/paranoia instead. You naturally don’t manage this fear that well and can turn a bit pessimistic or melancholy at times.

On the unhealthy side, Indirect Resource knows no boundaries hence they can be seen as eccentric, non practical and also occasionally, lazy. You don’t take stress very well and the fact that you don’t like sharing your thoughts and feelings much makes this worse.

In love, what’s there not to like about a person who knows everything about you and what you change of mood means before you even say anything? They are as attentive and caring as it can get if you like that sort of thing. Because they can smother you with too much at times (with all the best intentions) but for those hardcore profiles you might find the IR a bit passive for your liking.

If YOU are Indirect Resource: Like the Friend whom are sensitive to anything jeopardizing their image, you are sensitive to just about everything. If the Friend gets offended over a comment, you will get emotionally hurt instead. This hurt is not just confined to things related to you, all it takes is a dead puppy by the roadside or someone who just shared a sob story, that’s it. You’re cute like that. You are very prone to being passive aggressive and resort to other means, like sarcasm or saying things you don’t mean to your loved ones. When they don’t get it, you get even more upset. So try to speak up more even when you’re uncomfortable. Don’t be so paranoid about everything too, sometimes you are just overthinking and it’s not even true. Remember to take care of yourself as much as you enjoy taking care of others.

This also means that you take FOREVER (if even ever) to approach your crush. You are going to regret it if you miss the boat, so for god’s sake, please take that initiative once awhile, they can’t read your mind and may not even know you like them anyways.

How to turn them on: Take note of what they like most, they will be surprised that you paid as much attention as they did. Most IR pick/pursue their partner instead of the other way round because it has to be someone who are enjoy analyzing/interest them THAT much. So I guess just be who you are, they will decide if that’s what they envision in a spouse. Learning is great too, they love anything to do with their hands, suggest some yoga, art, meditation, metaphysics, psychology classes with them and take that opportunity to spend that time together. They need that sort of time and reassurance before you even earn their trust. You need to encourage them to speak out more too, subtly. They only open up to those who can give them 3 things they crave: Trust, Comfort level and Assurance.

How to turn them off: They are the slow and steady type, so don’t ever rush them, pressure them and don’t scare them. Giving them ultimatums will most likely backfire on you. Although they do love learning and enjoying new experiences, they avoid anything with too much adrenaline rush or involves high risk. They are not risk takers. Kill a cat in front of them.. haha *kidding!!* that would turn a LOT of profiles off, not just this one 🙂 On that note, people who have no compassion, be it to humans or animals are a no-no on their list. Lie… *laughs* They already know that you’re lying anyways, so it really really upsets them.

What to buy for them: Something of sentimental value like making them a bracelet, personalized gifts, bake them their favorite cake and just a cozy dinner under the stars. Psychology, stock trading, arts, metaphysics classes, for TWO! ♥

 

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The 10 Gods Code: How To Love a 7 Killings

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Ah….the ultimate bad boys and girls. Seven Killings (7K) are usually the rule breakers, the charismatic leader, general, go getter, always carrying that powerful aura which you don’t know if you should be afraid of them or be in awe with them. Either ways, you’ll definitely notice them the moment they walk into a room.

So, you’re in love with one? Good luck to you 🙂

7 Killings are also adrenaline junkies who loves living life on the fast lane, the one that gives you the regular heart attack with their unpredictable and reckless antics. Even their driving is enough to scare you. No matter in traditional or modern society context, 7 Killings are still called ‘Problems’, they attract it, they manage it and this is what makes them fantastic problems solvers. They never shy away from challenges, in fact if you dare, try and challenge them and see what happens.

The thing about 7 Killings is that they REALLY love a good challenge. If you’re going to challenge them they are going to make sure that they beat you fair and square – losing is not really an option. On the unhealthy side, if you offend them they are also not going to let it go lightly. They make formidable enemies and when their anger is triggered can go through great lengths to settle a score.

In love, a 7K tend to like something totally different. They are the ones who most likely have a partner of a difference race, different culture, different thinking, huge age gap and so on. There’s something distinctively different between them. Hence for such a ‘fierce’ profile, they are the few ones that are actually tolerant to differences. The only issue here is that they love challenges a bit too much that the thrill of the chase is more important than the person itself. To them the partner is a target, a prize, they haven’t really thought far enough as what to do with this prize once they conquer it. So if they are not careful they can end up chasing after/insisting on someone whom they didn’t want in the first place until their interest in them totally wears out.

If YOU are 7 Killings: You are usually rash – actually very rash and you don’t think too much before plunging into a relationship as long as it triggers your adrenaline rush. So to avoid chasing the wrong person over and over again, do try to take the time to get to know them first. Either that or you just like picking the one that is ‘too challenging’, ‘too problematic’, ‘too unattainable’ that you don’t know when to stop this heroism for your own good. Being a hero for someone is good, but when it comes to relationship you need to differentiate between bettering someone and saving someone. Your partner wants you to love them for who they are, not pity them for you to feel good about yourself. You’ll also attract freeloaders that way. For women, your boyfriend/partner is the most important person to you and you’d go through great lengths, no matter how high or how low for them.

The 7K favorite past time is actually triggering your partner’s anger or just irritating them for fun (sometimes very physical too), it makes you smile and you actually find their angry look really cute but they don’t see it that way….okay?

How to turn them on: Look good. 7 Killings profile usually likes someone who looks good and presents themselves well. Blow hot and cold with them and don’t give in. Argue with them, stand your ground and don’t give in – at least not so easily. It helps if you also enjoy adventure and are an adrenaline junkie and you can take ‘heart attacks’ really well. Be interesting. Do new and fun things every other day, keep things fresh and exciting. Although they are fierce generals, they secretly harbor a need to be controlled instead of being in control because they can be extremely rash without logic, so someone who can tactfully and subtly talk sense into them is greatly appreciated, as an Eating God would 🙂

How to turn them off: This is relatively easy because it’s quite easy to anger them. Bore them to death. Tell them you hate adventure or anything new and exciting. Be overbearing and refuse to follow their plans – drives them crazy. Shamelessly use them, I dare you 🙂 The attention span they have for you solely depends on their interest in you. If your test their patience a bit too much they will move on very quickly as well and almost never look back.

What to buy for them: Go flyboarding with them, bungee jumping or skydiving, hike the Everest, trips to exotic places. So a rugged GoPro or outdoor gear will come in handy for all their sporty activity. Anger management kit *laughs*.

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The 10 Gods Code: How To Love a Friend

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Friends (F) are also the lovable ones depending which side you’re standing on. They have everyone’s phone number on speed dial, they know almost everyone there is to know and are extremely popular, supportive, a genuine people-person. They crave creating meaningful connections and they recognize people’s talents very well, which makes them great co-workers, good friends but not necessarily a good life partner. Let’s see.

This is because even though Friends also have the ability to yield to public consensus, but subconsciously, the self always comes first – their reputation, how they are being seen, how they are perceived, this is very important to them. So this yielding does come with a purpose, if not a price tag. For the DO, everyone else (especially the authorities) comes first. For the Friend, me comes first. For this reason alone, the DO and F do compliment each other this way – the rest of the profiles are going to have to just get used to it. They are great networkers and are very resourceful when you want to pool a team with multiple skillsets together. The great thing about Friends is that self development is also very important to them. They constantly improve to be better and they love sharing this knowledge or skillset with those around them too. To them, everyone needs to grow.

On the unhealthy side, Friends can be very unapproachable and unsociable. They drastically fluctuate between a person who cannot live without someone else accompanying them to someone who enjoy their own space, their own routine a bit too much. They also carry an egoistic nature and a superior attitude over those who are different from them – they stick with their kind. They can be overly people pleasing as well and they care for the world what is being said about them. Hence instead of making life choices that benefit them, they instead opt for the choice that makes them more accepted. This is why, they need to learn how to pick partners that are actually good for their wellbeing, have their best interest at heart and not for their public persona or family/friends approval or the worst case, to soothe their own ego.

In love, a Friend likes something similar, or someone whom they also see something in themselves. If that’s not the case, then it will be someone whom they are able to help and assist in some way which in return makes them feel good about themselves. They feel that this is the way they are able to grow, together. What their partner says means the world to them and there shouldn’t be any circumstances that defeats their entire self confidence. Otherwise they find it difficult to function. Grow with them and they will always yield to what you want, be what you need and be your biggest supporter as well.

If YOU are Friend: Friends, I feel, are the most sensitive one, in a sense that you are quite touchy with any subject or criticism that concerns you even if it wasn’t malicious. You care too much about how people see you and what you represent. Therefore you end up overthinking your actions and are overly conscious with your next step just to avoid being seen in a certain way even if no one was paying attention in the first place. You constantly also compare yourself with others and you have a need to stay on par with your social circle. You get very miserable and moody if you’re seen as less or you can’t keep up even if you don’t show it outwardly. In a relationship, this is tiresome for your partner. If they can’t keep up, you resent them too. You’re also not very tolerant with the needs of others nor their differences in character which makes you quite difficult to be with.

How to turn them on: This is probably the easiest, just focus on them. I’m kidding. They’re not narcissistic, just a little bit self centered. But the fastest way to their heart is to blend in with whatever is important to them – especially their family and important friends. It helps if you can keep up with their social network or better still help them grow their network empire and make them look good, make them a better person. They are very likely to spend more time with their friends and social network than having private time with you, so you need to be understanding of that.

How to turn them off: Putting them down in front of others. Refusing to get along with those that are important to him. Criticize them about not fitting in with a gang or not being able to live up to certain social standards. This is seen as an attack to their self confidence and nothing upsets them more. Being demanding of their time and attention without caring about those around them. Being stubborn and unyielding to changes and self improvement. There’s one thing I noticed about a Friend profile is that when they look for you to talk about a problem, they actually want someone to patiently listen to them, as in a sounding board, a release and a support system. They are not really seeking for any advise from you as they most probably already know the solution themselves.

What to buy for them: Mirror *laughs and kidding*. Any spa or self pampering package will work very well for them. Self improvement courses of any kind or a gym/golf membership. Social dance classes, something you can do with a bunch of friends too.

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The 10 Gods Code: How To Love a Direct Officer

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Let’s face it, Direct Officer [DO]s are downright lovable. They are your support system, your cheerleader, your sounding board, your go-to person when you have problems. They listen to you without asking for anything in return. They are also very attentive to what you like, what you don’t like and already ready before you even ask for something. The only problem for a DO person is that usually no one does it for them in return because everyone else’s needs is more important than their own.

However because of this massive ability to yield, it sometimes makes them look slightly ‘spineless’ because they rarely want to be the one to make the big decisions, at least to lead the way – they need to be told what to do instead. But that being said, they are very high on morality and doing the right thing which is why they have a whole load of self induced values, principles and they stick to it no matter what. This is not linked to any decision making capabilities – if they had to make a decision, they always end up with the decision that pleases others instead of the actual purpose.

On the unhealthy side, they are definitely not proactive and it might be difficult to get an honest opinion from them because they only tell you the things that do not hurt your feelings not because of anything else but if they hurt your feelings, they hurt their own feelings too. On a battlefield, be it work or life, they retreat to their own safe place and will not take any sides if they are not required to.

In love, a DO is really easy to love because they are the ideal wife/husband material. They are supportive, listens to all your problems and tries to fix them before you even ask, provided you are the one who will set the pace, decide on both your life paths and make the big decisions. The DO will happily comply. It’s not that the DO can’t do it but they much prefer it to be done by someone they truly look up to and they will give their entire heart and soul to making it happen. What happens if both of you are DO? Take turns making the decision or set the areas where each will make their decision in and stick to it.

If YOU are Direct Officer: First and foremost you also have to realize that if you want to make a sacrifice for someone else, you cannot hold them accountable for any personal losses that comes with it. You have a tendency to be passive aggressive too, especially when your 1,001 values are challenged.  There are many ways to achieve the same result if you just open your mind to it and it’s really okay to not follow the stone cold ideals you had when it doesn’t even fit the current situation anymore. Lighten up. You also need to set the expectation upfront that you don’t really like to decide on the grand plans. You’re a natural follower and you always allow your partner to take charge and take the lead. Also don’t beat around the bush, if you like, don’t like or don’t want something just say it.

How to turn them on: The number 1 way to their heart, is to *sometimes* put them first. This will pleasantly surprise them and make them feel appreciated because their number 1 problem is being used by people, hence they secretly harbor lack of trust. DO structured females will always put their husbands first. Nothing else is more important than the husband which is why she better pick the right one. They are also natural followers but you still need to tell them everything upfront – the entire grand plan, the entire schedule with proper timing because they don’t really like midway surprises. If you want to surprise them you better make sure you’ve also prepared the things they would prepare for such situation. They can’t do anything ad hoc, well they can, provided you told them in advance that this is going to be ad hoc, then please update them again accordingly.

How to turn them off: Break your promise. Don’t keep your word. Nothing breaks their heart (and trust) more than this. If you said something, you better make sure you fulfill it. Making them break their principles – they might do it just to please you, but they will resent you for it. Do everything ad hoc without informing them of anything – drives them insanely nuts. Doing things in an improper or disrespectful manner, like breaking the rules and not conforming to certain social structure or legalities. Making them choose between mother and wife (or something similar) is also as good as shooting them in the foot.

What to buy for them: Anything to do with precise measurements *laughs* Actually flight simulation or pilot for a day adventures would be fun for them. Watches, sentimental objects, they are very heavy on sentiments. Girls with heavy DO actually like very cute, fluffy, colorful things – usually likes Pink a lot. For guys, the latest gadgets will work very well with them.

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‘It’s Okay to Not be Okay’: The Guide to Getting Out of Depression

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I’m writing about this because too many people have either been asking for advise on this or they are in depression but don’t really know how to handle and get out of it and I’ve noticed a substantial increase of this issue among my social circle and a general sense that this pattern is going to stay around till next year. The scariest form of depression are not those who admit it, it’s those who still smile and look happy yet are suffering internally.

No one likes to talk about mental health but this is absolutely necessary – especially now. So if you notice someone around you who are displaying these signs you need to keep an eye on them:

  1. A general feeling of apathy and no drive in what used to excite them
  2. Unable to get out of bed hence always missing at work/social appointments or are always late.
  3. Not concerned about their appearance and a major drop in work performance
  4. Sudden loss or gain of weight
  5. Appearing too happy or always laughing/joking about everything. The unhappier they are, the more they laugh while totally avoiding the serious/emotional stuff (think Robin Williams).
    People who are truly happy are exceptionally calm, not exceptionally smiley.
  6. Sudden mood swing from happy laughter to being sarcastic and mean. One moment they seem friendly, the other moment they are very inconsiderate to others.
  7. Beginning to display self destructive behavior – excessive smoking, drinking, sex, gambling. They even see it as normal because they don’t think something better is possible for them. So they almost never seek help.
  8. Tired and lacklustre eyes (from lack of sleep and also apathy)

Ironically some people look better and better (you can see it from their facial features and glow compared to the past) and they tell me they are having depression – to me, this particular situation is actually a spiritual awakening and something that is heading for the better, hence this blah feeling will only be temporary. The ones you need to worry about at the ones that are looking worse by the day, with a black/green tinge to their skin tone.

Metaphysically how do you detect depression? Depression is a loss of clarity when things are on a downward spiral, when you see no way out (or up) to your solution and you don’t talk about it at all because you’re not even sad or angry, you’re just numb.

  1. In Metaphysics this is closely linked to the Earth element, the 1 element that loves to keep everything to themselves – which is still okay until they see a subsequent amount of water (And vice versa). We term this as “contamination” or a shrouded mind where clarity is no longer present.
  2. The Sky Cry and Sword Edge Star. If it came in annually then we call this ‘temporary depression’. This year almost 80% of people I’ve met have a Goat [Sky Cry] in their internal palaces – so I remind them that this is just a 1 year depression and it will get better. Knowing this alone made them feel much more hopeful.
  3. Among all the 10 Gods the ones that don’t talk too much and/or overthink are the Resource heavy people and unhealthy Eating Gods.
  4. Solitary and Lonesome stars also keep a lot to themselves and should guard against overthinking.
  5. Horse-Rat clash: This denotes a person who is fickle and lacks peace of mind / clarity. This may or may not translate to depression, but they definitely lack clarity.
  6. Unhealthy or missing Fire element. Fire is the zest of life, having no or unhealthy fire lessens your will to live.
  7. Your hour pillar is in Fan Yin.


If you (or your close ones) are going through this and can’t seem to get out of it, what can you do?

  1. It’s okay to admit that you’re not okay.
  2. Remove yourself from the problem area. If it involves people, remove yourself from the toxic people. We want to contain the issue, so don’t go running elsewhere and create bigger issues you don’t need right now.
  3. People with depression cannot get out of bed. So make it a point to force yourself up everyday. Just get out, even if it’s just a walk and then back home, but establish a consistent wake up time to catch the morning sun and a good breakfast.
  4. Stop any high risk activities, like aerial silk, solo abseiling, maybe freediving or any high risk activities that requires your own judgement.
  5. It’s okay to fluctuate between doing okay and then relapsing back to gloom. Just don’t stay there.
  6. Learn something new, pick up something you need to learn or train on a weekly basis. That will establish a consistent pattern for awhile.
  7. Have 1 particular focus. A competition, a book, a fitness goal, something you need to accomplish and it’s okay if you screw up too. Just have that 1 focus point that you can work towards on a daily basis.

Let’s face it, when you’re in depression it’s difficult getting out of it without some external help for that extra boost, so in terms of Metaphysics [Heaven|Earth|Man], these are some things you can do:

Qimen: The deity that governs Faith, Hope in the future is 9 Heaven. This month’s (Oct) 9 Heaven is in the SouthEast. Have your back SouthEast and repeat the following “I am worthy. I am good enough. I love life, things will only get better and I will never give up” Do this everyday for a month and see yourself start to change (Once the chart changes on Nov 8, back face West instead)

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Feng Shui: Look for your Sheng Qi direction and have your desk or bed (top of the head) face that direction

Intervention: Find someone who is their Nobleman to talk to them. My best friend, also my nobleman/useful god, coaxed me to accompany her to a Joey Yap seminar back in 2010 which ultimately shaped my future. For those who are worried about your friends, always check on them. Be their support system by giving them things to do (1 focus point) or just keep them busy out of the house, either dancing or just hanging out till they are much better.

Lastly keep moving forward even if you can’t see what’s ahead. Take baby steps if you must because no storm lasts forever. After all, depression is also the last spiritual journey to enlightenment as long as you don’t give up. You’ll thank yourself someday 

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The 10 Gods Code: How To Love an Eating God

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First of all, you better be an Eating God to actually fall in love with an Eating God if not you’re going to find them extremely difficult to understand. Eating Gods don’t think like everyone else – that is the most unique thing about them. They have extremely abstract thought, they LOVE playing with the mind and are actually very proud that they are different without bothering to explain anything. They don’t even like to talk much. This can be a nightmare for those of you who are a bit more rigid, more conventional and who like things straightforward.

When I say mind games I’m not calling them politicians. Eating gods are definitely far from that but they enjoy observing the actions and reactions of everything in life: how humans work and what makes them tick (also what makes them blow up). To them, life is abstract. They are very open to new ways of thinking, new culture, new experiences and it is this form of worldliness that gives them an added advantage when creating something totally new or when coming up with an unorthodox solution. It is this unorthodox strategizing that allows it to be the only one who can take down the fearful 7 Killings without even lifting a finger – making them fantastic business consultants and problem solvers. They really enjoy using puzzles, riddles, cryptic messages to express themselves and expect those who love them to get it. They get quite disappointed when their loved ones don’t. Because the problem is… only another Eating God will get it and they end up staying in a close knitted pack of their weird, abstract thought, happily mocking everyday people they perceive to be “normal and boring”. This is the idiotic side to them. They have their own ideals and unconventional belief that will never be governed by any amount of money. They will downright refuse/leave something that doesn’t sit well with them because it’s their creativity, authenticity and eccentricity that makes them a fortune, not the other way round.

In love, an Eating God is all about pleasing you because they are true perfectionists and they are not afraid to put in all their effort as long as your also step up to the plate. You itself, to them, is an art that is to be appreciated, adored and loved to the highest degree. Their level of intensity may scare you at first (even more with the Hurting Officer) but rest assured they make sincere, authentic, honest partners even if they don’t look like it at first. Plus they do enjoy annoying their partners just for the heck of it, just because they can. Eating Gods either don’t pick any partner or when they pick one they are in for the LONG haul. They are long term planners after all. If they didn’t think you fit in their future you wouldn’t even stand a chance against their list of endless criteria.

If YOU are Eating God: Don’t set the bar too high for your partner and accept them as they are. Most EG partners confess that they constantly feel they can’t measure up to your expectations, and frankly, no one will. So don’t make your partner feel that way especially when you’re not perfect yourself. Settle with what you perceive as ‘less’ and work around it… and… once awhile keep that sass in check 🙂

How to turn them on: Let them be themselves – they already know they are weird and downright a diva. Be quirky, be yourself, be silly, be fun, be anything you want to be as long as you don’t impose a set of conventional rules/social expectation on them. Sex is also very important to them. You also need to love FOOD and travels. Eating Gods are very open-hearted and charitable to some worldly causes that are close to their heart, it helps that you are also that way, if not at least supportive of it. They secretly crave to be understood, they light up when they’ve found their kind, even more so when you are someone they admire/can learn from. Lastly, give them their thinking space.

How to turn them off: Criticize them for being different with words like “Why can’t you be just like everyone else?” “Can you conform to our rules?” “Can you stop embarrassing me?”. Nothing hurts them more and they hide further into their shell. Setting rules or tradition for them to follow. Being closed minded and not open to other views, culture or solution. Being calculative, fake, unkind and not supportive. Wanting them to be “normal” and criticizing the things they are passionate about and working on (but you are allowed to highlight the realities which they sometimes lack). They are also not keen on small talk.

What to buy for them: Most Eating Gods love life luxuries, but I’ve also noticed that it doesn’t always have to be expensive, but it has to be really creative, different and of personal value. Gastronomical experiences, unplanned trips, glamping, exotic travels, photography lessons, Qimen classes, pole dancing lessons – because god forbid it can’t be *normal* dance lessons *laughs*.

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The Qimen Method: SE Case Study – Increasing Sales

The other day I posted a brief case study on my Facebook page (in case you are not following my Facebook Page – Mind Your Qi by Mindy Yoong – please do as I share more information on that Page than I do on this blog) about a good friend who called me up to thank me because when we met up last week, he complained about an empty shop and asked if there’s anything that could be done to boost up the number of customers. So when I made him manifest something from that hour’s chart, it worked. Now everyone wants to know how/when/why/what/who which I didn’t have enough time to explain in a short post.

This is a big deal for me because this is the first time he actually called to thank me. My years and years of trying to convince him of Qi Men, he didn’t even thank me when we bought a 4D ticket together based on Qimen and won (I won’t be explaining this). THIS, he finally thanked me.

First thing that comes into people’s minds –> Is this even real or not? So easy?? Maybe just a coincidence? Why hasn’t it worked for me?

When it comes to Strategic Execution there are a couple of rules and pre-requisites. If you can’t meet them, you won’t see results. Period.

This was the chart I used when I paid him a visit at that hour –>

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Background: My good friend – one of the biggest skeptic in the world – has a destiny Surging Snake that he doesn’t know about, has very strong martial arts background but zero knowledge of QiMen, so his personal Qi is high to begin with and he CAN feel energy because he is a destiny Surging Snake, he says he sees colors and I’ve personally watched his eyelids flutter when I make him tap into energy. I love using him as my ‘Qi radar’ because I trust him enough to tell me what he feels exactly in different directions without knowing what on earth I’m doing.. *laughs*

Q: Why did I pick South? and not South West (Or East)

A: To be fair I made my friend try the South West first, I didn’t like SW or E because it was a Delusion/Rest door, not great for increasing Sales unless you already have clients you want to lock in. But I wanted his feedback. He stood there for a good 30 seconds, all restless to tell me… nope. Nothing. I said “Nothing?? It’s a 6 star Chief…”. “Nope…..no feeling”. Fine. So I moved him to the Snake palace with the more appropriate Harm door without any prior explanation. And he went all “Oooo…ahhh….disco lights” so I left him there to do his thing. I think this is because he is familiar with his own energy, hence the Surging Snake and also Harm door and also Destructor – matches his own chart entirely. And since he was using the Snake, I asked him to shift the dull energy of the entire shop – manifest vibrant thoughts and customers who will come in happy and leave happier. Surging Snakes have the ability to flip the energy of an entire room.

Pre-requisite:

Use whatever you are comfortable with even if it’s not what you presume to be the best formation. If you don’t trust the feeling, it won’t work. It does really help if you can do some meditation or energy tapping techniques. If not, use the Active Method like making calls, sending emails or posting promotions.

Q: Why pick Harm door? 

A: Harm door represents hunting for something, finding something and that includes Leads and Sales. We pick what suits our objective.

Pre-requisite:

You need to know what you want or at least identify the root cause to know what to use in the first place. If in doubt, consult us.

Q: Why look at the Door if we’re manifesting? Isn’t it unnecessary?

Yes, it’s not really required, but Qimen loves specifics. If you can be more specific, the faster the desired outcome will be. It’s like telling your Uber Driver: I want to go to the airport but I’m not sure which terminal but we’ll find out when we get there. Versus: I want to go directly to Gate 4 of Terminal 3, International Airport, thanks. Which one is clearer and faster? Personally, I look at everything, including the Hexagram.

Pre-requisite:

Knowing that this is just a temporary quick fix and that you need to follow up with subsequent actions that will lead to long term results. It opens the door, but you have to do the work to stay in the room.

Last Pre-requisite:

I believe a lot in affinity. There were also a few consults I did where what they complained about could be solved with that hour’s Qimen chart and it did – it’s their affinity with the solution. Some may need to wait longer than others.

 

The Final Touch:

There is a final touch that I commonly use and I only use it if and when needed, that is my 7 star Phoenix mouth. Not sure how much it factored in, but I’d like to think it did a fair bit.

 

Happy Trying! ♥

 

Disclaimer:
The information in this page/blog is meant to supplement, not replace, proper metaphysics training. Readers should consult a certified consultant for proper diagnosis of their entire chart/life issues. Past events, locales and conversations may have been reconstructed in order to maintain anonymity. Any resemblance to an actual person, living or dead, or actual events (unless specified) is purely coincidental.