So you’re in love with a 癸 Gui? You must like challenge a lot. Because Gui are mist, dew, clouds, ever tried catching a cloud?
The first thing everyone says about the Gui is that they are snobbish because they are just metaphysically wired to look a bit Cold and Mysterious at first impression. They are normally really warm and sociable once they get more comfortable. No matter how they look, they are also ULTRA IMPATIENT. If they wanted something they want it by a certain timeline, if then not at all. In courtship, if nothing progresses once they passed this time limit they lose interest entirely and will move on like you never existed. So, try not to test or play games with your beloved Gui. They tolerate it but it really annoys them because they already saw right through you from the start. They are that intuitive and it deeply hurts them when you’re not being as sincere as they are. They are the softest element after all.
Gui greatly admires knowledge. As much as they grow others, they actually crave for someone who teaches them something in return to look up to. They admire someone with drive, aspirations but is soulful and compassionate too. Be assertive and direct, most importantly be your true self. The Gui already knows what you want to say so don’t beat around the bush or god forbid, lie.
All water need their space and privacy. Especially the energy-sensitive Gui. They unfortunately morph into everything around them which in turn makes them temperamental and ever changing. So they need their own little space to ‘recharge’ and piece themselves back together, sitting in some cafe pondering by themselves or in some gym working out. They LOVE their alone time and hopes their other half don’t take this personally. Because this is actually for everyone’s good. A pent-up, frustrated Gui is not a person you want to be around unless your hobby is standing on an open field during a massive thunderstorm with the scariest lightning bolts. Hehe.
癸 Gui (Yin Water) [combine] 戊 Wu (Yang Earth)
For someone so illusive they secretly crave for some stability. An aimless Gui is not an optimized Gui. So as much as they enjoy their freedom loving ways they crave for a stable, safe place to come home to. An equal partner who becomes their focal point and gives them some sense of higher purpose. They are also disorganized as hell, so you’ll have to clean up after them 🙂 But Gui really takes their time to find that home because Gui doesn’t mind spending a lifetime by themselves. The only way you can convince them is when you add more value into their world than them being by their comfortable selves. But once they finally choose to float to you they would never leave. Okay maybe for awhile to unwind and then they come right back 🙂