The 10 Gods Code: How To Love an Indirect Wealth

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You (in fact everyone) would know when an Indirect Wealth (IW) is in love. They go all out, heart on their sleeve, relentless at pursuing the person of their desire. Like a missile locked on their target they can and will do (or sacrifice) whatever it takes, nothing is too great for their loved ones and nothing much can stand in their way. This trait is what makes them great market leaders to begin with.

Indirect Wealth are the trailblazers, pioneers, kick-starters and go getters. They entire personality is wired that way hence they make really good business(wo)men. They don’t take ‘No’ for an answer and will break down walls if they have to just to achieve what they set out to do. Very much like the 7 Killings, except that one is very adrenaline charged yet reckless and the other passion charged yet measured and focused. If I were to give an example, I’d call the 7K a cannonball and the IW a motion guided missile. Either way both are very charismatic, charming, awe inspiring and carries a powerful disposition.

That being said, the difference with Indirect Wealth is that, everything is passion and vision based. If they chose you, you should know that they have already foreseen a future with you worth pursing before they even said ‘Hi’. Unlike the Direct Wealth who weighs and measures, the Indirect counterpart have this uncanny ability to see ahead of others, be few steps ahead of others and have an edge over competitors, be it in life, love or business. Their sense of believe in something, faith in something they are passionate about without letting any risk bother them is unwavering.

The only issue is when this believe and faith is taken advantage of or dies down. Because of their nature, the IW has great high and lows in life and they unfortunately take failures very badly. Not only is it a bruise to their ego but the biggest upset is that their vision didn’t go as planned, or a person who didn’t live up to their expectations. They can be quite brutal about moving on to their next passion, and that includes people.

If YOU are Indirect Wealth: Passion, to you, is everything. It’s what you live and breathe for and this works great in your career. But when it comes to relationships, you need to also remember that there will be mundane day to day things where not much excitement is involved. There are plenty of way to continuously keep the passion alive and like the 7 Killings, to avoid chasing the wrong person do try to take the time to get to know them first. The reason why I say this is that you have a tendency to fall head over heels for someone purely out of passion (which is easily mistaken for lust) and the relationship dies down as fast as it began. This makes you attract people who are not in for the long haul or people who will leave you very easily as well after emptying your pockets (because you are so generous), which is okay if you’ve decided on that sort of lifestyle but for those who are not, take some time to know the person for who they really are, their quirks, their weaknesses, their mundane routine instead of plunging head on to the next best thing – try to balance this.

How to turn them on: They are usually very attracted to someone somewhat carefree, wild and yes, hot, and usually someone above their social status. But in general someone that triggers their heart, mind and soul and this is rather subjective. Be supportive of their career and remind them of it. They can veer off course for awhile just because of love. The perfect person for an IW is someone who equally compliments their career, their support system, confidant and cheerleader. An unhealthy IW tend to decide from their lust (well they call it passion) and the healthy IWs will understand the concept of having a partner you adore, who not only befits your social standing but also supportive enough to be the key person behind your success. They are big picture people and tend to forget the smaller details – that’s where you come in.

How to turn them off: They are quite headstrong and want their way, so being equally domineering will turn them off. They may be in love with you but it does not mean that they release their reign to you. They really dislike being questioned many times and will always feel there is no need to report every single thing to you. This angers them. You will just have to take it as it is and trust him. Undermining their ambition – it really upsets them.

What to buy for them: A romantic dinner, exotic holiday, hot air balloon ride, stroll by the beach and buy them something with sentimental value or something very exclusive and difficult to get your hands on.

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The 10 Gods Code: How To Love a Rob Wealth

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Rob Wealths (RW) are very easy to love. They are fun, cheerful, full of life and they always know the right thing to say. Funny, witty, lovable, there are always great memories created whenever you’re around them. Always up for a good time and you can be sure that your family and friends will love them too. They naturally draw people in because they have this ability to connect to most people on a soul level. They are also the light of every party and everything they say or do seems very captivating. Count on them to know what makes you tick and they will adjust and comply accordingly. Crazy, over the top yet lovable.

The only issue is not about loving them, the issue is with keeping them. Because at the end of the day they make much better friends than life partners because in their world, their friends will always come first, family second. It’s also very difficult to see the real character of a Rob Wealth until pressure kicks in. They are a master of disguise and a real professional at morphing into different characters as the situation sees fit. I’ve lived with one for 18 years before picking up Metaphysics, I do give them an applause for showmanship – they are two different people in and out of a relationship.

If YOU are Rob Wealth: The Rob Wealth can be so engrossed in their multiple characters that sometimes even they can’t remember which is their true self. This makes you pretty scary to be with because your partner can never gauge your intention, your next move, your reality or your made up fantasy/alibi. This can work against you as you look very shifty and unreliable. You tend to jump easily from one thing to the next and lack stability. This is what makes you turn to your friends instead whom you feel you need not answer too much to and need not know too much about you instead. That makes you feel more at ease. You also need to remember to put a leash on your spending habits and social lifestyle because this will cause you massive financial problems that will spill into your relationship.

How to turn them on: All  Rob Wealth secretly crave for the approval of their peers and closest social circle, so the fastest way to their heart is to make sure their friends approve of you.  Like the Friend profile, they are very likely to spend more time with their friends and social network than having private time with you, so you need to be understanding of that too. I also noticed that Rob Wealth have this tendency to pick someone a bit more shy, reserved and quiet (but not boring to a certain extent) – somewhat of a contrast to them, at least publicly. They also like someone a bit more fun loving and willing to put up with all their shenanigans.

How to turn them off: Not letting them go out. Caging them at home and putting an end to their ‘buddy time’ or boys/girls night out. Exposing their multiple facades, it does hurt them. If you see right through them, they will usually end up avoiding you. They like fun, excitement, change and adventure, so someone who is not into those kind of things would bore them. They are very easily bored and need constant stimulation.

What to buy for them: A lavish meal, throw them a big party with all their friends invited. Indoor games or pool table. A day at the amusement park.

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The 10 Gods Code: How To Love a Direct Wealth

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Most Direct Wealth (DW) will swear that they don’t really bother much about relationships and it’s all about building their wealth, securing their future and all but as I’ve observed, this is not very true.

If a female Direct Officer profile is very husband-centric, this would make a male Direct Wealth profile, actually very wife centric. Hence for the male DW, their wife is the most important aspect in their life. It’s tied to their financial stability as well, so there’s no one without the other. If one part is unsatisfactory, the other follows as well, vice versa. For a female DW, it still doesn’t run off that far as both male and female only seeks for one most important thing in a relationship – safety.

In love, they are as awkward as awkward can be. The only issue is they are not as expressive as their counterpart Indirect Wealth and not as creative and sensual as the Eating God, not as charming as the Hurting Officer or 7 Killings. So what does that leave them with? Their trustworthiness – except their trust is extremely difficult to earn. The irony is that, their intense need for safety and stability is the exact same thing that drives them to think that they will not get it because for some reason they attract partners who are as clinical, cold and calculative as they portray to be. They want so much trust that they don’t believe anyone out there is worth believing either – because their ‘modus operandi’ is just that – I will not open up my heart to someone until I’ve tested and weighed everything that they are ‘safe’. When you operate that way, you attract someone like that as well – with a closed pragmatic heart. Asking them for a heart-to-heart talk would literally kill them *laughs*.

If YOU are Direct Wealth: I don’t even know how to put this mildly because DW profiles do have the highest unsolvable relationship issues – but a relationship does require patience and whenever possible some fun and togetherness, not a function to serve as a mean to your end or at least don’t make people feel that way when it’s not really want you want. You tend to say you don’t place importance in relationships only because you are not comfortable nor know how to express your feelings effectively – so you hide in this cold, nonchalant, aloof exterior like you don’t care. You’re so afraid of taking the risk that you always end up with the ‘safe choice’. This is most important for the male because the quality of your relationship will determine the quality of your financial state. You can’t separate these two aspects. You should also use the word ‘I’m sorry‘ more often.

How to turn them on: They are rather bossy, which is why they also get along well with the complying Direct Officer or Direct Resource. One orders – one comply, one lead – one follows. They say they’re not into that whole relationship thing but the one thing that lights them up is the feeling of being appreciated. They do and sacrifice a lot for their loved ones, their one and only issue is self-expression and they also expect you to see this for yourself. So it would be nice to be acknowledged and appreciated for all their efforts. They are also very result oriented, so if you say you’re going to do something, you better make sure you do it. After all, they have already proven a lot for their loved ones.

How to turn them off: Break their trust – they can turn quite bitter over unfortunate relationships experiences – hurts them right to the bones no matter how they deny it. Being overly spontaneous without a proper plan or schedule. Try disrupting their schedule and see how irritated they can be *laughs*. Taking the lead or initiating something – unfortunately most plans have to sit well with them first before it can be executed, so your understanding is needed here. Being wishy washy because they like things fast and to the point.

What to buy for them: Abacus (I’m kidding). Something practical, functional and lovely, like a gold chain or a nice watch ♥

 

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The 10 Gods Code: How To Love a Direct Resource

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You know it’s pretty much safe to place your heart with a Direct Resource. These are the people who have already weighed, measured, calculated, assessed everything there is to assess before they decide that they want you in their life – which most likely took a LONG time for them to decide on this. The very lovable thing is that they know everything that is to know about you which means they know what you want or what you mean before you even know it yourself. Secondly, they are known for being refined, cultured, learned and always keen to explore something new – at the very least someone very logical minded. An adventurous geek in the best way possible yet caring and understanding – truly an alluring combination to have.

Like the Indirect Resource (IR) they too can be so inward that they spend a lot of time by themselves busy churning their data, analyzing the next best thing and mulling on life decisions – everything has to come with a set of predictive flow and logic. They can take a very long time to come to a fruitful decision – if at all. To much data and analysis can sometimes turn into inaction caused by fear and in more extreme cases, depression for knowing/seeing too much. This inaction will then translate them to staring at their crush from a distance and not saying a word about it.

In love, as stated, others need to be the passive one to make the first move on a Direct Resource.  Like the IR, you also take FOREVER (if even ever) to approach your crush – not because of shyness but because they missed one or two things on your checklist, so chill it. To you it’s not about the perfection but rather a logical habit, it can stress your beloved out. Sometimes you are so logical that you expect your beloved to behave in a logical manner as well which takes away the magical feeling of being in love. Anything that falls into that zone, you suddenly can’t compute.

Sidenote: If you have DR in your chart you naturally speak more eloquently and are more well mannered than those with only IR in the chart. Those who only have IR in the chart tend to be more direct, blunt, rough around the edges and much less eloquent in speech.

If YOU are Direct Resource: There’s only 1 advise – don’t over ANALyse. It does sometimes make your other half quite uncomfortable and eerie if you’re trying to date. It’s great trying to find out what makes a person tick, but as most seasoned metaphysicians know by now – you can’t force logical thinking into relationship matters. Anything that involves more than one person and involves feelings will have the tendency to defy all logical thinking. Have more faith – in the Universe and yourself. So do not try to plot a Qimen chart for every single date, Yi Jing every single argument, Horary Chart every interaction – meaning don’t analyse every single event that takes place (don’t deny I know DRs do this!), no relationship can survive such constant dissecting.

How to turn them on: They do not easily open up to people so you need to be proactive. You need to take the lead if you are in love with a Direct Resource, at the very least drop obvious hints. Be interesting enough to keep their interest going. Learn with them, travel with them, talk with them and listen to their grand new discovery. I also noticed that DRs tend to gravitate towards stronger personalities who is not afraid to take the lead and teach them something new. The biggest trick to talking to them is to reason with them with logic. Better still if you can show statistics *laughs* – that will truly impress them!

How to turn them off: It’s actually quite difficult to turn off a DR because of their compassion and understanding but there are some pet peeves that might rub them the wrong way – that is to speak without any logic and being stubborn about it. Ignorance and single mindedness also turns them off. They love all things knowledge, growth, being better, piecing things together and if there’s one thing that can really turn them off I would generally term it as ‘ignorant stupidity’.

What to buy for them: Go travel together, go to the museum, library, places of culture where they can immerse in new experiences and culture. The latest gadgets, limited edition lego sets, limited edition superhero collectibles, metaphysics classes ♥

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The 10 Gods Code: How To Love a Hurting Officer

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The very first thing Bazi teaches you about Hurting Officer, especially ladies, is that you’re going to have a ‘challenging’ relationship – because you are a Hurting Officer (HO) profile.

Why is that you may ask? Because Hurting Officers love one thing – that is to debate. For someone who also loves debating they will see this as a ‘healthy exchange of opinions’ and to those who don’t see this as being ‘argumentative’. The other thing they love more than debating is stand out and be seen – being in the limelight, being different and standing up for something. They almost never back down. Dramatic is their middle name.

This is really fantastic for work, especially artistic work – because you totally stand out and stand up for your own belief and ideas. You do and say what needs to be done and said regardless of how many feet you step on to do it. But this only becomes a problem when you bring this trait back home – so don’t. Leave your showmanship and grandeur at work, don’t bring this trait back home and try to give instead.

In love, a HO is really downright aggressive. Those who are more passive will love them as they would do anything and everything they can to woo the object of their fancy. They’re charming, they’re proactive and the know the right things to say and just the right time. The only issue is that this is not so sustainable after many years of marriage and their initial wit and charm can become sarcasm and insults if they are unhappy, bored or dissatisfied in some way. But then again, being dramatic they just talk like that and those of you who are in love with a HO should have know this beforehand and accept them as they are.

If YOU are Hurting Officer: First and foremost you have to get it in your head that in matters of love, it’s not you against me but you AND me against the problem. Sometimes you can get too carried away with your way of doing things that you accidentally forget about what your partner wants and thinks as well. You also need to realise that your sometimes-diva manner of speech can rub people the wrong way, even if to you it’s perfectly normal and that’s how you are at ease. Lastly, you also need to know when to stop at your intense exchange of ideas (debates). Mental stimulus is very exhilarating but it can be tiring as well if this happens too often or on a daily basis. Keep things light once awhile and let others have a say too.

How to turn them on: For someone who is frequently misunderstood as somewhat of a snob, they really do enjoy someone who can carry a good conversation. Someone intellectual whom they can bounce off ideas with. So the number 1 way to their heart, is to love exchanging ideas with them. It really impresses them. It’s also refreshing from the others who thinks that they are being ‘difficult’ or ‘argumentative’ or ‘competitive’. Also don’t constantly steal their limelight.

How to turn them off: Agree with whatever they say – they actually don’t like that. Put them down/humiliate them in public unless you have a death wish. Call them argumentative, worst still a bitch (even if you’re male). Actually it hurts them and makes them feel like no one understands them. This is the best way to ensure your HO lover will not contact you anymore. And by the way, once they are over you, they are totally done. They will cut all ties with you like you never existed.

What to buy for them: Something really flashy or something with a good brand name on it. Go to speaking or toastmaster event with them, maybe even drama class or performing arts. The latest thing in the market – be it gadgets or bags/wallets.

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The Qimen Method: Qimen Destiny and Career Challenges

Recently I did a number of Qi Men consults and there was one that really caught my eye because although people can tell you that they go through a lot of work challenges, the moment I looked at her chart I was kind of thrown off. It was a 7 Star Ferocious White Tiger Formation (near death but not dead) also with a White Tiger deity in her Qimen Career palace. The first thing I said was wow, your enemies are really vicious – the powerful kind that would go out of their way to kill off her career. Unfortunately she’s also a Gui day master with a Cascading Cloud this year. She just casually nodded.

The thing about charts is that, you can actually use it both ways – meaning you can choose to be the Ferocious White Tiger first. But this is where a consultant comes in, I need to identify which side (the light or the dark) was she on at the moment. I looked at her chart, I looked at her, a person who doesn’t even like to be involved in politics to begin with but is constantly dragged into it.

If that is not bad enough, her Career palace produces her Karmic palace – the lessons you need to learn in this lifetime – which I won’t divulge everything but there was Destructor and Red Phoenix Dive Into River formation which means each time someone uses her as a scapegoat or takes her down (can also mean some were her own lapse of judgement and unwillingness to yield) she will get so upset that she leaves. She will let go and demolish everything she has built in her career and just leave – which is the lesson she’s supposed to learn or life will make her keep rebooting her career again and again until she learns this – How NOT to leave every time someone pisses you off. I realize people do these a lot these days (but I was also guilty of it once upon a time) – You’re not going to be in a perfect career all the time and there are things you will need to fix, FIX it instead of giving up so easily. At the very least, pause before you react.

Thankfully, we’re in metaphysics and there are multiple ways we can do this – you can either tweak your Feng Shui to increase your own energy level or the best tool ever in these situations – Qimen. There are a number of formations you can actually use for self defense – which is either taught in class or shared in consultations when we see fit – the one that I share the most apart from the Double Deception is also a huge upgrade of your own perception of the word ‘Problems’ – use your Chief/9 Heavens/Moon to learn how to embrace problems. Now that you know Qimen, go AROUND it, not run away or head butt it further. Embrace, Learn, Grow, Control. If you run from your lessons, your lessons will run after you again and again.

And in her case, it’s her Karmic lesson. You can’t keep quitting no matter how bad it gets, and it can get really bad. But looking back, is it worth it? Is losing everything you’ve built throughout your years of blood and sweat worth it? If your answer is no, fight the hell back ♥

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