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You know it’s pretty much safe to place your heart with a Direct Resource. These are the people who have already weighed, measured, calculated, assessed everything there is to assess before they decide that they want you in their life – which most likely took a LONG time for them to decide on this. The very lovable thing is that they know everything that is to know about you which means they know what you want or what you mean before you even know it yourself. Secondly, they are known for being refined, cultured, learned and always keen to explore something new – at the very least someone very logical minded. An adventurous geek in the best way possible yet caring and understanding – truly an alluring combination to have.
Like the Indirect Resource (IR) they too can be so inward that they spend a lot of time by themselves busy churning their data, analyzing the next best thing and mulling on life decisions – everything has to come with a set of predictive flow and logic. They can take a very long time to come to a fruitful decision – if at all. To much data and analysis can sometimes turn into inaction caused by fear and in more extreme cases, depression for knowing/seeing too much. This inaction will then translate them to staring at their crush from a distance and not saying a word about it.
In love, as stated, others need to be the passive one to make the first move on a Direct Resource. Like the IR, you also take FOREVER (if even ever) to approach your crush – not because of shyness but because they missed one or two things on your checklist, so chill it. To you it’s not about the perfection but rather a logical habit, it can stress your beloved out. Sometimes you are so logical that you expect your beloved to behave in a logical manner as well which takes away the magical feeling of being in love. Anything that falls into that zone, you suddenly can’t compute.
Sidenote: If you have DR in your chart you naturally speak more eloquently and are more well mannered than those with only IR in the chart. Those who only have IR in the chart tend to be more direct, blunt, rough around the edges and much less eloquent in speech.
If YOU are Direct Resource: There’s only 1 advise – don’t over ANALyse. It does sometimes make your other half quite uncomfortable and eerie if you’re trying to date. It’s great trying to find out what makes a person tick, but as most seasoned metaphysicians know by now – you can’t force logical thinking into relationship matters. Anything that involves more than one person and involves feelings will have the tendency to defy all logical thinking. Have more faith – in the Universe and yourself. So do not try to plot a Qimen chart for every single date, Yi Jing every single argument, Horary Chart every interaction – meaning don’t analyse every single event that takes place (don’t deny I know DRs do this!), no relationship can survive such constant dissecting.
How to turn them on: They do not easily open up to people so you need to be proactive. You need to take the lead if you are in love with a Direct Resource, at the very least drop obvious hints. Be interesting enough to keep their interest going. Learn with them, travel with them, talk with them and listen to their grand new discovery. I also noticed that DRs tend to gravitate towards stronger personalities who is not afraid to take the lead and teach them something new. The biggest trick to talking to them is to reason with them with logic. Better still if you can show statistics *laughs* – that will truly impress them!
How to turn them off: It’s actually quite difficult to turn off a DR because of their compassion and understanding but there are some pet peeves that might rub them the wrong way – that is to speak without any logic and being stubborn about it. Ignorance and single mindedness also turns them off. They love all things knowledge, growth, being better, piecing things together and if there’s one thing that can really turn them off I would generally term it as ‘ignorant stupidity’.
What to buy for them: Go travel together, go to the museum, library, places of culture where they can immerse in new experiences and culture. The latest gadgets, limited edition lego sets, limited edition superhero collectibles, metaphysics classes ♥
The information in this page/blog is meant to supplement, not replace, proper metaphysics training. Readers should consult a certified consultant for proper diagnosis of their entire chart/life issues. Past events, locales and conversations may have been reconstructed in order to maintain anonymity. Any resemblance to an actual person, living or dead, or actual events (unless specified) is purely coincidental.