The 10 Gods Code: How To Love an Eating God

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First of all, you better be an Eating God to actually fall in love with an Eating God if not you’re going to find them extremely difficult to understand. Eating Gods don’t think like everyone else – that is the most unique thing about them. They have extremely abstract thought, they LOVE playing with the mind and are actually very proud that they are different without bothering to explain anything. They don’t even like to talk much. This can be a nightmare for those of you who are a bit more rigid, more conventional and who like things straightforward.

When I say mind games I’m not calling them politicians. Eating gods are definitely far from that but they enjoy observing the actions and reactions of everything in life: how humans work and what makes them tick (also what makes them blow up). To them, life is abstract. They are very open to new ways of thinking, new culture, new experiences and it is this form of worldliness that gives them an added advantage when creating something totally new or when coming up with an unorthodox solution. It is this unorthodox strategizing that allows it to be the only one who can take down the fearful 7 Killings without even lifting a finger – making them fantastic business consultants and problem solvers. They really enjoy using puzzles, riddles, cryptic messages to express themselves and expect those who love them to get it. They get quite disappointed when their loved ones don’t. Because the problem is… only another Eating God will get it and they end up staying in a close knitted pack of their weird, abstract thought, happily mocking everyday people they perceive to be “normal and boring”. This is the idiotic side to them. They have their own ideals and unconventional belief that will never be governed by any amount of money. They will downright refuse/leave something that doesn’t sit well with them because it’s their creativity, authenticity and eccentricity that makes them a fortune, not the other way round.

In love, an Eating God is all about pleasing you because they are true perfectionists and they are not afraid to put in all their effort as long as your also step up to the plate. You itself, to them, is an art that is to be appreciated, adored and loved to the highest degree. Their level of intensity may scare you at first (even more with the Hurting Officer) but rest assured they make sincere, authentic, honest partners even if they don’t look like it at first. Plus they do enjoy annoying their partners just for the heck of it, just because they can. Eating Gods either don’t pick any partner or when they pick one they are in for the LONG haul. They are long term planners after all. If they didn’t think you fit in their future you wouldn’t even stand a chance against their list of endless criteria.

If YOU are Eating God: Don’t set the bar too high for your partner and accept them as they are. Most EG partners confess that they constantly feel they can’t measure up to your expectations, and frankly, no one will. So don’t make your partner feel that way especially when you’re not perfect yourself. Settle with what you perceive as ‘less’ and work around it… and… once awhile keep that sass in check 🙂

How to turn them on: Let them be themselves – they already know they are weird and downright a diva. Be quirky, be yourself, be silly, be fun, be anything you want to be as long as you don’t impose a set of conventional rules/social expectation on them. Sex is also very important to them. You also need to love FOOD and travels. Eating Gods are very open-hearted and charitable to some worldly causes that are close to their heart, it helps that you are also that way, if not at least supportive of it. They secretly crave to be understood, they light up when they’ve found their kind, even more so when you are someone they admire/can learn from. Lastly, give them their thinking space.

How to turn them off: Criticize them for being different with words like “Why can’t you be just like everyone else?” “Can you conform to our rules?” “Can you stop embarrassing me?”. Nothing hurts them more and they hide further into their shell. Setting rules or tradition for them to follow. Being closed minded and not open to other views, culture or solution. Being calculative, fake, unkind and not supportive. Wanting them to be “normal” and criticizing the things they are passionate about and working on (but you are allowed to highlight the realities which they sometimes lack). They are also not keen on small talk.

What to buy for them: Most Eating Gods love life luxuries, but I’ve also noticed that it doesn’t always have to be expensive, but it has to be really creative, different and of personal value. Gastronomical experiences, unplanned trips, glamping, exotic travels, photography lessons, Qimen classes, pole dancing lessons – because god forbid it can’t be *normal* dance lessons *laughs*.

Disclaimer:
The information in this page/blog is meant to supplement, not replace, proper metaphysics training. Readers should consult a certified consultant for proper diagnosis of their entire chart/life issues. Past events, locales and conversations may have been reconstructed in order to maintain anonymity. Any resemblance to an actual person, living or dead, or actual events (unless specified) is purely coincidental.

The Qimen Method: SE Case Study – Increasing Sales

The other day I posted a brief case study on my Facebook page (in case you are not following my Facebook Page – Mind Your Qi by Mindy Yoong – please do as I share more information on that Page than I do on this blog) about a good friend who called me up to thank me because when we met up last week, he complained about an empty shop and asked if there’s anything that could be done to boost up the number of customers. So when I made him manifest something from that hour’s chart, it worked. Now everyone wants to know how/when/why/what/who which I didn’t have enough time to explain in a short post.

This is a big deal for me because this is the first time he actually called to thank me. My years and years of trying to convince him of Qi Men, he didn’t even thank me when we bought a 4D ticket together based on Qimen and won (I won’t be explaining this). THIS, he finally thanked me.

First thing that comes into people’s minds –> Is this even real or not? So easy?? Maybe just a coincidence? Why hasn’t it worked for me?

When it comes to Strategic Execution there are a couple of rules and pre-requisites. If you can’t meet them, you won’t see results. Period.

This was the chart I used when I paid him a visit at that hour –>

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Background: My good friend – one of the biggest skeptic in the world – has a destiny Surging Snake that he doesn’t know about, has very strong martial arts background but zero knowledge of QiMen, so his personal Qi is high to begin with and he CAN feel energy because he is a destiny Surging Snake, he says he sees colors and I’ve personally watched his eyelids flutter when I make him tap into energy. I love using him as my ‘Qi radar’ because I trust him enough to tell me what he feels exactly in different directions without knowing what on earth I’m doing.. *laughs*

Q: Why did I pick South? and not South West (Or East)

A: To be fair I made my friend try the South West first, I didn’t like SW or E because it was a Delusion/Rest door, not great for increasing Sales unless you already have clients you want to lock in. But I wanted his feedback. He stood there for a good 30 seconds, all restless to tell me… nope. Nothing. I said “Nothing?? It’s a 6 star Chief…”. “Nope…..no feeling”. Fine. So I moved him to the Snake palace with the more appropriate Harm door without any prior explanation. And he went all “Oooo…ahhh….disco lights” so I left him there to do his thing. I think this is because he is familiar with his own energy, hence the Surging Snake and also Harm door and also Destructor – matches his own chart entirely. And since he was using the Snake, I asked him to shift the dull energy of the entire shop – manifest vibrant thoughts and customers who will come in happy and leave happier. Surging Snakes have the ability to flip the energy of an entire room.

Pre-requisite:

Use whatever you are comfortable with even if it’s not what you presume to be the best formation. If you don’t trust the feeling, it won’t work. It does really help if you can do some meditation or energy tapping techniques. If not, use the Active Method like making calls, sending emails or posting promotions.

Q: Why pick Harm door? 

A: Harm door represents hunting for something, finding something and that includes Leads and Sales. We pick what suits our objective.

Pre-requisite:

You need to know what you want or at least identify the root cause to know what to use in the first place. If in doubt, consult us.

Q: Why look at the Door if we’re manifesting? Isn’t it unnecessary?

Yes, it’s not really required, but Qimen loves specifics. If you can be more specific, the faster the desired outcome will be. It’s like telling your Uber Driver: I want to go to the airport but I’m not sure which terminal but we’ll find out when we get there. Versus: I want to go directly to Gate 4 of Terminal 3, International Airport, thanks. Which one is clearer and faster? Personally, I look at everything, including the Hexagram.

Pre-requisite:

Knowing that this is just a temporary quick fix and that you need to follow up with subsequent actions that will lead to long term results. It opens the door, but you have to do the work to stay in the room.

Last Pre-requisite:

I believe a lot in affinity. There were also a few consults I did where what they complained about could be solved with that hour’s Qimen chart and it did – it’s their affinity with the solution. Some may need to wait longer than others.

 

The Final Touch:

There is a final touch that I commonly use and I only use it if and when needed, that is my 7 star Phoenix mouth. Not sure how much it factored in, but I’d like to think it did a fair bit.

 

Happy Trying! ♥

 

Disclaimer:
The information in this page/blog is meant to supplement, not replace, proper metaphysics training. Readers should consult a certified consultant for proper diagnosis of their entire chart/life issues. Past events, locales and conversations may have been reconstructed in order to maintain anonymity. Any resemblance to an actual person, living or dead, or actual events (unless specified) is purely coincidental.

The Qimen Method: Relationship Compatibility Part 1

Last year during one of my workshop I introduced a ‘testing’ Qimen compatibility theory using Stars which the students has feedback to me that it didn’t look quite right. So I’ve been researching on how to see Synastry using Qimen and this is the first finding, so far this has been pretty accurate.

The general theory when looking at Friendship or Like-mindedness is when 2 person share the same Destiny palace, at least the same Palace element – Wood and Wood, Fire and Fire, Water and Water, Earth and Earth, Metal and Metal. Producing cycle is still okay.

But when it comes to romantic relationships you should throw in another palace – this involves looking at your Destiny palace and your Relationship palace (6 Harmony) in your Destiny Chart, because that’s usually what you want or how you see and approach relationships. Having someone who has a destiny palace in your relationship palace shows someone you will be attracted to. Having someone who shares the same 6 Harmony palace as you shows someone who shares your same views in a relationship. Same Destiny with Same Relationship Palace is also okay. Note where the palaces and palace elements are.

For example in chart 1 and chart 2 below, Person 1 has the 6 Harmony in the South East palace, and Person 2 is a Destiny Palace of South East. Person 2 is the kind of person Person 1 looks for in a relationship – hence the attraction is high. Person 2’s 6 Harmony does not share the same palace but it still belongs to the same element – hence the natural attraction still there.

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When I say Natural Attraction, it just means that the relationship is easier and your tolerance level is higher caused by the like-mindedness in character and views of relationship. If you realize you don’t fit this criteria it just means that you have to exercise tolerance, understanding and give and take a bit more than those who have this. Furthermore relationship is the most complex subject of all and some people (especially those Day Master sitting on 7 Killings), does not like anything Easy anyways.

Producing palace is still okay, but this means one person is always giving more than the other. One very okay with giving and one very okay with taking while complaining – sounds quite normal to me – *laughs*.

 

Disclaimer:
The information in this page/blog is meant to supplement, not replace, proper metaphysics training. Readers should consult a certified consultant for proper diagnosis of their entire chart/life issues. Past events, locales and conversations may have been reconstructed in order to maintain anonymity. Any resemblance to an actual person, living or dead, or actual events (unless specified) is purely coincidental.

The Problem Management Code: #3 Timing

So once you’ve already established that you are not the issue and the people you are keeping near you are not the issue, what else can be the problem?

There are so many motivational quotes out there that tells you to wait for the “right” timing, don’t rush anything, what’s meant to be will be, so on and so forth. While they are not wrong there’s also such a thing as not having the right time, for instance, having a Fan Yin destiny chart, be it Qimen or Bazi. Charts with heavy clashes also usually don’t have the right timing, there’s always seems to be a price to pay for something good that comes into their life. Then what now? Sometimes you have to accept that you will never be ready and just go out and do it.

There are also situations where you just don’t have much time. Either your Luck Pillar comes too late, you have an underlying disease or maybe someone you love has one then you don’t wait for anything – you just do what needs to be done and – this is where metaphysics comes in handy – to control, contain and handle all obstacles that may arise from doing things ahead of time.

Hence we go to the main essence of Chinese Metaphysics – the importance of Date Selection where you pick the right day (with it’s corresponding right Qi) to perform something to get the outcome you want. There are multiple methods and steps in Date Selection but we’ll just stick to the 12 Day Officers for now:

建 Establish Day: Great for starting something, kick starting something and initiating something that you can be in charge of and see through.

除 Remove Day: As the name already suggests, to remove things or bad energy patterns such as spiritual, emotional or physical cleansing, fat, to end a relationship or the best time to clear off your old stocks or anything still stacked up in the warehouse.

满 Full Day: Full days are great for gaining things. More suited to adding anything to what you already have now, there is a feeling of abundance and tilting the scale to it.

平 Balance Day: Great for win-win situations, achieving harmony and equilibrium in a situation. Negotiations are best done on these days.

定 Stable Day: A great day for things/events that will span for a very long time, and I mean a VERY long time. The energy brings neutrality so if you’re looking for a change or something to be different, don’t use this day.

执 Initiate Day: A great day to start something new. Has a feeling of restart or reboot after something that didn’t work out initially. A new beginning and a brand new project. The energy only triggers initiation but not sustenance.

破 Destruction Day: Great for disrupting the norm or to destroy something current. However it can be used for a breakthrough and to alter self destructive patterns.

危 Danger Day: This day has the ability to turn something around only if you are the initiator and not the initiated. It’s generally unfavorable for any other activities apart from plans that involve counter attack.

成 Success Day: Good for almost everything except legal issues and must not clash with your own year. Has a multiplier effect.

收 Receive Day: As the name suggests, good for receiving and be open to receiving all opportunities that comes your way. Great for conceiving as well.

开 Open Day: Also a good day for most things, launching, opening markets, opening minds, getting someone to listen to you except surgeries need to take note of possible bleeding issues.

闭 Close Day: Great for closures, closing a chapter/case or healing from the past. Not to be used to actively engage with people, they will not be receptive to you.

To clarify, this is only one of MANY steps to select a date that suits your own personal activities depending on the outcome you want to achieve. We can talk more about that next time or better yet, we have a fantastic and experienced trainer for our Date Selection Mastery course, do join his class 🙂

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Disclaimer:
The information in this page/blog is meant to supplement, not replace, proper metaphysics training. Readers should consult a certified consultant for proper diagnosis of their entire chart/life issues. Past events, locales and conversations may have been reconstructed in order to maintain anonymity. Any resemblance to an actual person, living or dead, or actual events (unless specified) is purely coincidental.

Mind Your Hexagrams: 19 Arriving 地泽临 ䷒

I like this Hexagram. Kun on Dui is producing in hence this hexagram is about all things that are coming soon and on the way. You’re about to harvest the fruits of your labor. It comes after hexagram 18 Poison where you’ve rectified a difficult situation and everything is well on its way to progress. It brings with it a feeling of hopeful anticipation.

If you were asking about an action plan, it’s time for you to say what is it you want to say because it will be well received by the general public. Showcase what you have, speak your heart out, make that connection with the people you want to, everything will be well received. Take that step out of your comfort zone, to something new, and you will be rewarded soon.

In relationship context, what you’ve always wanted is on the way. If you’re single and waiting then this is a great sign that you’ll find someone suitable very soon. If you’re in a relationship, any plans that you both have will come to fruition. It will be an exciting and meaningful time for the both of you. (Just to add on: if you want to put this into a sexual context it can also represent climax or orgasms 🙂 ).

In health and well being, if you’ve been healthy, things will be looking great but for those who have not been feeling very well, you are due for a check up – most likely intestinal or something more to do with the lung and bones. Spiritually it’s time to do something new, step out of the norm to increase your energy level. This is a time to be focusing on your personal growth.

The Problem Management Code: #2 Other People (a.k.a. Petty People)

Another favorite topic we get often is Petty People.

Once you’ve identified you are not the issue, there are certain scenarios where the theory ‘You attract what you are’ doesn’t apply and petty people is one of it. The higher you climb, the more petty people you’re going to have. The more successful you are the more haters you’re going to get. The stronger your cause the bigger the opposition. So on and so forth.

And you do get to choose if you want to blend in or stand out. There is no right or wrong here.

Sometimes you even attract people who reflect the areas you refuse to fix within yourself. Like finding a helper-cum-assistant who does the most parts you should be doing yourself and because of this, you are at their mercy and have to succumb to whatever they want even when you’re paying them. This is the difference between hiring someone who helps you and hiring someone who will make a fool out of you and does not have your best interest at heart. I also call these – Petty People.

But first let’s identify what causes you to attract petty people:

  1. Strong and unfavorable 7 Killings
  2. Unfavorable Hurting Officer (HO)
  3. Jia / Bing / Wu / Geng stems in the Month Pillar have higher chances
  4. Cascading Cloud
  5. Yin Sha
  6. White Tiger
  7. Five Ghost
  8. Hook Edge
  9. Robbery Sha

I will write more on these Shen Sha / Auxiliary stars later, for now we just want to identify if we have it or not. The thing about Shen Sha is that it can be used both ways – to put it mildly, if you were never a bitch, that particular year/luck pillar is definitely training you to be one.  Survival of the fittest so to speak. But what if you are like me and made a vow in the Taiwan Excursion to never turn like these people if and when you meet them?

Then what?

You’re right, you need protection. In Feng Shui you can continuously activate the Sun sector throughout the year (North in 2019) on good dates of course. This will not only bunk up your own Qi tremendously but attract the help of a lot of noblemen.

Activating the Nobleman and Likability sector of your home is also an alternative. A little help is always good in times like these.

In the cases of my IT colleagues who travels a lot and are never home, Qimen is their best bet. In Qimen it’s all about what you want to do and what is the outcome you want to achieve because it’s all about strategy.

  1. Subtle Mode: So if your plan is to peacefully convert all your enemies and nay-sayers back into your supporters, use the Jade maiden guarding the door
  2. Attack Mode: If you plan to expose conmen who deserve to be exposed or idiots who reversed a situation on you or to shed light on any wrongdoing that needs to be seen, you also need to be picking good Qimen dates – your best bet is the 3 Noble Rising:3NR.JPG
  3. Defense Mode: If your plan is to just remove all intentional obstructions to get back what has been robbed away or taken away from you, use the Double Deception. This will get you back on track. That would be the Yi/Bing/Ding in Rest/Life/Open door with 9 Earth. If you notice that after doing this all your opportunities miraculously reappear then you’ll know that you’ve been intentionally sabotaged the entire time. Another thing to note is that if you want to use this, you better make sure you’re quite pure-hearted and are sure you are the victim, because if you’ve been attacking others all the while and use this, it will backfire on you.

There’s more that I do love to play around with and have shared with clients who came in for consultations to use. Some formations are not meant to attack but gives you enough protection or defense to just be left alone doing your own thing. Sometimes, that is all we want. I believe anyone can continuously thrive without destroying anyone else in the process and that should be the way, but maybe it’s my Chief speaking ♥

Happy Trying!

Disclaimer:
The information in this page/blog is meant to supplement, not replace, proper metaphysics training. Readers should consult a certified consultant for proper diagnosis of their entire chart/life issues. Past events, locales and conversations may have been reconstructed in order to maintain anonymity. Any resemblance to an actual person, living or dead, or actual events (unless specified) is purely coincidental.

The Shen Sha Code: Sky Cry 天哭

Traditionally, the text denotes that the Sky Cry star coincides with funeral (“white”) matters hence all the crying. Those with Sky Cry in the chart tears up very easily. Those who don’t have it in the chart but suddenly has it this year (2019 it’s with the Goat) will suddenly feel a lot more emotional than usual.

If you never cried at movies, weddings, sick puppies you suddenly will. If you usually only cry once in 3 years you’re going to break your record this year.

Those who try to bury these emotions end up having depression or a feeling of emptiness within. Out of nowhere you feel absolutely lost and life feels meaningless. I’ve told many clients with a Goat in their chart this year (especially Day and Hour) that this is normal and it will go away very soon.

The second thing that I have concluded, after pondering what on earth would cause a person to suddenly just keep crying all year round? I asked them to check their hormone level. I’ve concluded that Sky Cry does somewhat equate to a sudden hormonal imbalance (if suddenly came in Annually) or permanent hormone imbalance (permanent Sky Cry in the chart).

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So in case you have this in your chart this year and think you’re going nuts, you only have another 5 months to go before it affects the Horses. Keep it up.. hehe.

Disclaimer:
The information in this page/blog is meant to supplement, not replace, proper metaphysics training. Readers should consult a certified consultant for proper diagnosis of their entire chart/life issues. Past events, locales and conversations may have been reconstructed in order to maintain anonymity. Any resemblance to an actual person, living or dead, or actual events (unless specified) is purely coincidental.