The 10 Gods Code: How To Love a Direct Wealth

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Most Direct Wealth (DW) will swear that they don’t really bother much about relationships and it’s all about building their wealth, securing their future and all but as I’ve observed, this is not very true.

If a female Direct Officer profile is very husband-centric, this would make a male Direct Wealth profile, actually very wife centric. Hence for the male DW, their wife is the most important aspect in their life. It’s tied to their financial stability as well, so there’s no one without the other. If one part is unsatisfactory, the other follows as well, vice versa. For a female DW, it still doesn’t run off that far as both male and female only seeks for one most important thing in a relationship – safety.

In love, they are as awkward as awkward can be. The only issue is they are not as expressive as their counterpart Indirect Wealth and not as creative and sensual as the Eating God, not as charming as the Hurting Officer or 7 Killings. So what does that leave them with? Their trustworthiness – except their trust is extremely difficult to earn. The irony is that, their intense need for safety and stability is the exact same thing that drives them to think that they will not get it because for some reason they attract partners who are as clinical, cold and calculative as they portray to be. They want so much trust that they don’t believe anyone out there is worth believing either – because their ‘modus operandi’ is just that – I will not open up my heart to someone until I’ve tested and weighed everything that they are ‘safe’. When you operate that way, you attract someone like that as well – with a closed pragmatic heart. Asking them for a heart-to-heart talk would literally kill them *laughs*.

If YOU are Direct Wealth: I don’t even know how to put this mildly because DW profiles do have the highest unsolvable relationship issues – but a relationship does require patience and whenever possible some fun and togetherness, not a function to serve as a mean to your end or at least don’t make people feel that way when it’s not really want you want. You tend to say you don’t place importance in relationships only because you are not comfortable nor know how to express your feelings effectively – so you hide in this cold, nonchalant, aloof exterior like you don’t care. You’re so afraid of taking the risk that you always end up with the ‘safe choice’. This is most important for the male because the quality of your relationship will determine the quality of your financial state. You can’t separate these two aspects. You should also use the word ‘I’m sorry‘ more often.

How to turn them on: They are rather bossy, which is why they also get along well with the complying Direct Officer or Direct Resource. One orders – one comply, one lead – one follows. They say they’re not into that whole relationship thing but the one thing that lights them up is the feeling of being appreciated. They do and sacrifice a lot for their loved ones, their one and only issue is self-expression and they also expect you to see this for yourself. So it would be nice to be acknowledged and appreciated for all their efforts. They are also very result oriented, so if you say you’re going to do something, you better make sure you do it. After all, they have already proven a lot for their loved ones.

How to turn them off: Break their trust – they can turn quite bitter over unfortunate relationships experiences – hurts them right to the bones no matter how they deny it. Being overly spontaneous without a proper plan or schedule. Try disrupting their schedule and see how irritated they can be *laughs*. Taking the lead or initiating something – unfortunately most plans have to sit well with them first before it can be executed, so your understanding is needed here. Being wishy washy because they like things fast and to the point.

What to buy for them: Abacus (I’m kidding). Something practical, functional and lovely, like a gold chain or a nice watch β™₯

 

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The 10 Gods Code: How To Love a Direct Resource

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You know it’s pretty much safe to place your heart with a Direct Resource. These are the people who have already weighed, measured, calculated, assessed everything there is to assess before they decide that they want you in their life – which most likely took a LONG time for them to decide on this. The very lovable thing is that they know everything that is to know about you which means they know what you want or what you mean before you even know it yourself. Secondly, they are known for being refined, cultured, learned and always keen to explore something new – at the very least someone very logical minded. An adventurous geek in the best way possible yet caring and understanding – truly an alluring combination to have.

Like the Indirect Resource (IR) they too can be so inward that they spend a lot of time by themselves busy churning their data, analyzing the next best thing and mulling on life decisions – everything has to come with a set of predictive flow and logic. They can take a very long time to come to a fruitful decision – if at all. To much data and analysis can sometimes turn into inaction caused by fear and in more extreme cases, depression for knowing/seeing too much. This inaction will then translate them to staring at their crush from a distance and not saying a word about it.

In love, as stated, others need to be the passive one to make the first move on a Direct Resource.Β  Like the IR, you also take FOREVER (if even ever) to approach your crush – not because of shyness but because they missed one or two things on your checklist, so chill it. To you it’s not about the perfection but rather a logical habit, it can stress your beloved out. Sometimes you are so logical that you expect your beloved to behave in a logical manner as well which takes away the magical feeling of being in love. Anything that falls into that zone, you suddenly can’t compute.

Sidenote: If you have DR in your chart you naturally speak more eloquently and are more well mannered than those with only IR in the chart. Those who only have IR in the chart tend to be more direct, blunt, rough around the edges and much less eloquent in speech.

If YOU are Direct Resource: There’s only 1 advise – don’t over ANALyse. It does sometimes make your other half quite uncomfortable and eerie if you’re trying to date. It’s great trying to find out what makes a person tick, but as most seasoned metaphysicians know by now – you can’t force logical thinking into relationship matters. Anything that involves more than one person and involves feelings will have the tendency to defy all logical thinking. Have more faith – in the Universe and yourself. So do not try to plot a Qimen chart for every single date, Yi Jing every single argument, Horary Chart every interaction – meaning don’t analyse every single event that takes place (don’t deny I know DRs do this!), no relationship can survive such constant dissecting.

How to turn them on: They do not easily open up to people so you need to be proactive. You need to take the lead if you are in love with a Direct Resource, at the very least drop obvious hints. Be interesting enough to keep their interest going. Learn with them, travel with them, talk with them and listen to their grand new discovery. I also noticed that DRs tend to gravitate towards stronger personalities who is not afraid to take the lead and teach them something new. The biggest trick to talking to them is to reason with them with logic. Better still if you can show statistics *laughs* – that will truly impress them!

How to turn them off:Β It’s actually quite difficult to turn off a DR because of their compassion and understanding but there are some pet peeves that might rub them the wrong way – that is to speak without any logic and being stubborn about it. Ignorance and single mindedness also turns them off. They love all things knowledge, growth, being better, piecing things together and if there’s one thing that can really turn them off I would generally term it as ‘ignorant stupidity’.

What to buy for them: Go travel together, go to the museum, library, places of culture where they can immerse in new experiences and culture. The latest gadgets, limited edition lego sets, limited edition superhero collectibles, metaphysics classes β™₯

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The 10 Gods Code: How To Love an Indirect Resource

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This one is quite lovable also, because apart from the Direct Officer (DO) who knows what you want before you even say it, the Indirect Resource (IR) knows what you’re feeling even if you don’t show it. Their natural intuition and keen eye doesn’t miss much, hence their passion for figuring out how everything works and that includes those they love. They love helping whenever then can, however they can and this comes with no boundaries nor intention. They make wonderful healers, social workers, or someone in the medical field, if they didn’t use their magnificent brain power to churn data and predicting market trends instead.

The thing so special about the Indirect Resource is that they are both smart and intuitive at the same time, like somehow their DNA has been wired to have the head and heart work at almost the same ratio. So they are open minded, the ultimate wanderers, want to (safely) enjoy new experiences, observe more, see different things and absorb everything like sponge. This is what makes them feel most alive.

The only thing about them is they can be so inward that they spend a lot of time in their own world. This can translate to day dreaming or overthinking. When you’re so good at analyzing everything, you understand the risk of every single action and this can turn into fear/paranoia instead. You naturally don’t manage this fear that well and can turn a bit pessimistic or melancholy at times.

On the unhealthy side, Indirect Resource knows no boundaries hence they can be seen as eccentric, non practical, rough around the edges and also occasionally, lazy. You don’t take stress very well and the fact that you don’t like sharing your thoughts and feelings much makes this worse.

In love, what’s there not to like about a person who knows everything about you and what your change of mood means before you even say anything? They are as attentive and caring as it can get if you like that sort of thing. Because they can smother you with too much at times (with all the best intentions) but for those hardcore profiles you might find the IR a bit passive for your liking.

If YOU are Indirect Resource: Like the Friend whom are sensitive to anything jeopardizing their image, you are sensitive to just about everything. If the Friend gets offended over a comment, you will get emotionally hurt instead. This hurt is not just confined to things related to you, all it takes is a dead puppy by the roadside or someone who just shared a sob story, that’s it. You’re cute like that. You are very prone to being passive aggressive and resort to other means, like sarcasm or saying things you don’t mean to your loved ones. When they don’t get it, you get even more upset. So try to speak up more even when you’re uncomfortable. Don’t be so paranoid about everything too, sometimes you are just overthinking and it’s not even true. Remember to take care of yourself as much as you enjoy taking care of others.

This also means that you take FOREVER (if even ever) to approach your crush. You are going to regret it if you miss the boat, so for god’s sake, please take that initiative once awhile, they can’t read your mind and may not even know you like them anyways.

How to turn them on: Take note of what they like most, they will be surprised that you paid as much attention as they did. Most IR pick/pursue their partner instead of the other way round because it has to be someone who are enjoy analyzing/interest them THAT much. So I guess just be who you are, they will decide if that’s what they envision in a spouse. Learning is great too, they love anything to do with their hands, suggest some yoga, art, meditation, metaphysics, psychology classes with them and take that opportunity to spend that time together. They need that sort of time and reassurance before you even earn their trust. You need to encourage them to speak out more too, subtly. They only open up to those who can give them 3 things they crave: Trust, Comfort level and Assurance.

How to turn them off: They are the slow and steady type, so don’t ever rush them, pressure them and don’t scare them. Giving them ultimatums will most likely backfire on you. Although they do love learning and enjoying new experiences, they avoid anything with too much adrenaline rush or involves high risk. They are not risk takers. Kill a cat in front of them.. haha *kidding!!* that would turn a LOT of profiles off, not just this one πŸ™‚ On that note, people who have no compassion, be it to humans or animals are a no-no on their list. Lie… *laughs* They already know that you’re lying anyways, so it really really upsets them.

What to buy for them: Something of sentimental value like making them a bracelet, personalized gifts, bake them their favorite cake and just a cozy dinner under the stars. Psychology, stock trading, arts, metaphysics classes, for TWO! β™₯

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