The 10 Gods Code: How To Love an Eating God

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First of all, you better be an Eating God to actually fall in love with an Eating God if not you’re going to find them extremely difficult to understand. Eating Gods don’t think like everyone else – that is the most unique thing about them. They have extremely abstract thought, they LOVE playing with the mind and are actually very proud that they are different without bothering to explain anything. They don’t even like to talk much. This can be a nightmare for those of you who are a bit more rigid, more conventional and who like things straightforward.

When I say mind games I’m not calling them politicians. Eating gods are definitely far from that but they enjoy observing the actions and reactions of everything in life: how humans work and what makes them tick (also what makes them blow up). To them, life is abstract. They are very open to new ways of thinking, new culture, new experiences and it is this form of worldliness that gives them an added advantage when creating something totally new or when coming up with an unorthodox solution. It is this unorthodox strategizing that allows it to be the only one who can take down the fearful 7 Killings without even lifting a finger – making them fantastic business consultants and problem solvers. They really enjoy using puzzles, riddles, cryptic messages to express themselves and expect those who love them to get it. They get quite disappointed when their loved ones don’t. Because the problem is… only another Eating God will get it and they end up staying in a close knitted pack of their weird, abstract thought, happily mocking everyday people they perceive to be “normal and boring”. This is the idiotic side to them. They have their own ideals and unconventional belief that will never be governed by any amount of money. They will downright refuse/leave something that doesn’t sit well with them because it’s their creativity, authenticity and eccentricity that makes them a fortune, not the other way round.

In love, an Eating God is all about pleasing you because they are true perfectionists and they are not afraid to put in all their effort as long as your also step up to the plate. You itself, to them, is an art that is to be appreciated, adored and loved to the highest degree. Their level of intensity may scare you at first (even more with the Hurting Officer) but rest assured they make sincere, authentic, honest partners even if they don’t look like it at first. Plus they do enjoy annoying their partners just for the heck of it, just because they can. Eating Gods either don’t pick any partner or when they pick one they are in for the LONG haul. They are long term planners after all. If they didn’t think you fit in their future you wouldn’t even stand a chance against their list of endless criteria.

If YOU are Eating God: Don’t set the bar too high for your partner and accept them as they are. Most EG partners confess that they constantly feel they can’t measure up to your expectations, and frankly, no one will. So don’t make your partner feel that way especially when you’re not perfect yourself. Settle with what you perceive as ‘less’ and work around it… and… once awhile keep that sass in check 🙂

How to turn them on: Let them be themselves – they already know they are weird and downright a diva. Be quirky, be yourself, be silly, be fun, be anything you want to be as long as you don’t impose a set of conventional rules/social expectation on them. Sex is also very important to them. You also need to love FOOD and travels. Eating Gods are very open-hearted and charitable to some worldly causes that are close to their heart, it helps that you are also that way, if not at least supportive of it. They secretly crave to be understood, they light up when they’ve found their kind, even more so when you are someone they admire/can learn from. Lastly, give them their thinking space.

How to turn them off: Criticize them for being different with words like “Why can’t you be just like everyone else?” “Can you conform to our rules?” “Can you stop embarrassing me?”. Nothing hurts them more and they hide further into their shell. Setting rules or tradition for them to follow. Being closed minded and not open to other views, culture or solution. Being calculative, fake, unkind and not supportive. Wanting them to be “normal” and criticizing the things they are passionate about and working on (but you are allowed to highlight the realities which they sometimes lack). They are also not keen on small talk.

What to buy for them: Most Eating Gods love life luxuries, but I’ve also noticed that it doesn’t always have to be expensive, but it has to be really creative, different and of personal value. Gastronomical experiences, unplanned trips, glamping, exotic travels, photography lessons, Qimen classes, pole dancing lessons – because god forbid it can’t be *normal* dance lessons *laughs*.

Disclaimer:
The information in this page/blog is meant to supplement, not replace, proper metaphysics training. Readers should consult a certified consultant for proper diagnosis of their entire chart/life issues. Past events, locales and conversations may have been reconstructed in order to maintain anonymity. Any resemblance to an actual person, living or dead, or actual events (unless specified) is purely coincidental.

The Fan Yin Code in Relationships

Before I even start, if you’re a beginner kindly ignore this entirely. Fan Yin is a rather advanced/complex subject which is still open to a lot of discussion, debate and consideration. I consider these my own views on the subject.

I’ve gotten a number of recurring questions lately, asking me if 2 person whose Day Master Fan Yin each other can work? Like everything was okay until they found out their spouse is their Fan Yin, so what now?

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This actually requires a lot of consideration and it’s not a clear cut yes/no answer because I have seen people who Fan Yin each other actually work well but you have to fit a certain set of criteria.

Fan Yin is a Heaven and Earth clash where the heavenly stem and earthly branch are both clashed/countered. This is seen as ‘killing the daymaster’ in general and is seen as something very inauspicious. Some people have it in their natal chart, you’ll notice they have a lot of highs and lows in life, You can read about it here but there are great misconceptions about it’s usefulness as well.

Since we’re only focusing on relationship, the question right now is that if you don’t have it in your natal chart and you meet a person whose DAY MASTER is your Fan Yin, can this work? Under normal circumstances, we totally discourage this but under weird circumstances it has seen to work IF you fit the criteria below:

1. No.1 Rule:

The number 1 rule actually is that the other person should not Fan Yin your Useful God. In this case the Day Master is not as important as your Useful God, especially if your Day Master is unhealthy (don’t ask me how to determine this it’s been highlighted in multiple courses). Example if you’re a Gui Chou (Yin Water Ox) DM, with the Useful God of Yi Mao (Yin Wood Rabbit), and you met a double Xin You (Yin Metal Rooster) DM like above – you should run as fast as you can *laughs*

2. Useful God

Sometimes the Fan Yin coming in IS your Useful God. Then it actually benefits you more than ruin you. In a relationship it can be draining or you have to overcome something really big to be together, so that brings us to the next criteria to see if you can take it.

3. Day Master 10 Gods

If your Day Master is sitting on EG  or 7K (or have very high EG), you’re actually more accepting to Fan Yin in general – in fact you thrive in it. So having someone who Fan Yin you, you love the chase, the thrill, the challenge and your relationship is going to be the extreme kind where either you love each other crazy or drive each other crazy, and you actually enjoy it! More often than not, there is a huge challenge you both need to overcome first, which totally excites the EG and 7K. But if you’re sitting on anything else – run.

4. Day Master Strength

Check their Day Master strength to begin with. Some are supposed to be a Fan Yin but they may be too weak to even attack u at all. Then it just becomes nothing. If the other person already has a natal Fan Yin (inward), their day master won’t be overly strong anyways, in layman’s terms this translates as someone who knows how it feels like to be attacked and usually will not attack someone else no matter what. They can kill you, they just don’t.

This is a example of a Fan Yin In chart:

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There is another type of Fan Yin called the Fan Yin Out chart. People like these are naturally a bit vicious, self-centered, vindictive and they ‘kill’ even before they are being attacked or even when there’s no one attacking them. This type of chart would actually benefit from someone who Fan Yin them in return. This would be one example of an unhealthy self… BUT they are really good at making money for themselves or elevating their status using whatever it takes.

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5. Yin Yang

Yin elements takes it better than Yang somehow.

6. Elements

Earth clashes (Chou meet Wei | Chen meet Xu) is always better than any other elements clashing – except in health readings, then they are all bad.

7. Keep In Check

Lastly, the Fan Yin is most favorable when it removes your worst pillar or worst element, akin to removing your bad habit and making you a better person. Sometimes YOU are the problem and someone needs to keep you in check. Exactly like how a full combine (or DE) would work, it’s just that a full combine is comfortable – heavy 7K people won’t like this. Fan Yin is challenging, exciting, driven and yes also exhausting and dangerous – which the 7K and EG/HO enjoys and calls fulfillment – playing with fire and living on the fast lane.

To be really honest relationship matters are hardest to read because anything goes. There’s no 1 fixed rule because everyone is different, everyone’s needs are different. Some like it calm and quiet, some like it supportive, some like it thrilling and some like it dysfunctional and crazy, anything goes as long as 2 person agreed to it wholeheartedly. All we can do is to help you find your flavor, and hopefully someone who will be as equally excited to agreeing it with you ♥

Disclaimer:
The information in this page/blog is meant to supplement, not replace, proper metaphysics training. Readers should consult a certified consultant for proper diagnosis of their entire chart/life issues. Past events, locales and conversations may have been reconstructed in order to maintain anonymity. Any resemblance to an actual person, living or dead, or actual events (unless specified) is purely coincidental.

The Bazi Method: The Soulmate Code

SOUL•MATE [noun]

A person who was made from the same star as you

One of the simplest way (out of many other methods) to see your affinity with another person is by looking if you belong in the same group and your soulmate can be your closest friends and family too.

Those whose DAY MASTER belong in the same group tend to share the same mindset, belief system, spiritual belief, what they seek and search for in life (if you noticed they share the same Death and Emptiness) hence their ‘souls’ are the same making them highly compatible.

Even the things they grow to love and care about are the same.

Happy Searching! ♥

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Disclaimer:
The information in this page/blog is meant to supplement, not replace, proper metaphysics training. Readers should consult a certified consultant for proper diagnosis of their entire chart/life issues. Past events, locales and conversations may have been reconstructed in order to maintain anonymity. Any resemblance to an actual person, living or dead, or actual events (unless specified) is purely coincidental.