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The very first thing Bazi teaches you about Hurting Officer, especially ladies, is that you’re going to have a ‘challenging’ relationship – because you are a Hurting Officer (HO) profile.
Why is that you may ask? Because Hurting Officers love one thing – that is to debate. For someone who also loves debating they will see this as a ‘healthy exchange of opinions’ and to those who don’t see this as being ‘argumentative’. The other thing they love more than debating is stand out and be seen – being in the limelight, being different and standing up for something. They almost never back down. Dramatic is their middle name.
This is really fantastic for work, especially artistic work – because you totally stand out and stand up for your own belief and ideas. You do and say what needs to be done and said regardless of how many feet you step on to do it. But this only becomes a problem when you bring this trait back home – so don’t. Leave your showmanship and grandeur at work, don’t bring this trait back home and try to give instead.
In love, a HO is really downright aggressive. Those who are more passive will love them as they would do anything and everything they can to woo the object of their fancy. They’re charming, they’re proactive and the know the right things to say and just the right time. The only issue is that this is not so sustainable after many years of marriage and their initial wit and charm can become sarcasm and insults if they are unhappy, bored or dissatisfied in some way. But then again, being dramatic they just talk like that and those of you who are in love with a HO should have know this beforehand and accept them as they are.
If YOU are Hurting Officer: First and foremost you have to get it in your head that in matters of love, it’s not you against me but you AND me against the problem. Sometimes you can get too carried away with your way of doing things that you accidentally forget about what your partner wants and thinks as well. You also need to realise that your sometimes-diva manner of speech can rub people the wrong way, even if to you it’s perfectly normal and that’s how you are at ease. Lastly, you also need to know when to stop at your intense exchange of ideas (debates). Mental stimulus is very exhilarating but it can be tiring as well if this happens too often or on a daily basis. Keep things light once awhile and let others have a say too.
How to turn them on: For someone who is frequently misunderstood as somewhat of a snob, they really do enjoy someone who can carry a good conversation. Someone intellectual whom they can bounce off ideas with. So the number 1 way to their heart, is to love exchanging ideas with them. It really impresses them. It’s also refreshing from the others who thinks that they are being ‘difficult’ or ‘argumentative’ or ‘competitive’. Also don’t constantly steal their limelight.
How to turn them off: Agree with whatever they say – they actually don’t like that. Put them down/humiliate them in public unless you have a death wish. Call them argumentative, worst still a bitch (even if you’re male). Actually it hurts them and makes them feel like no one understands them. This is the best way to ensure your HO lover will not contact you anymore. And by the way, once they are over you, they are totally done. They will cut all ties with you like you never existed.
What to buy for them: Something really flashy or something with a good brand name on it. Go to speaking or toastmaster event with them, maybe even drama class or performing arts. The latest thing in the market – be it gadgets or bags/wallets.
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